The Day I Died… and Chose to Truly Live

From Death to Divine Calling: The 4 Questions That Created a Global Movement

On Christmas Eve 1995, I bled to death.
Yes—died.

My body went cold. My breath ceased. My mind shut down.
And then—He appeared.

Not the stained-glass Jesus.
Not religion.
Not doctrine.

Christ.
Radiant love. Fierce presence. Human form.

He stood between me and God—translating truths so vast they would’ve shattered my mind if taken all at once.
He guided me. Held the frequency. Delivered the codes.

And the veil lifted.


This Wasn’t Bliss.

It Was a Reckoning.

Time dissolved. Emotion disappeared. There was only truth.

I saw my life clearly:

  • Surviving abuse

  • Betrayal after betrayal

  • Hustling, performing, proving

  • Disconnected from my feminine power

  • Walking around as a woman—but not embodying her

And then Christ looked at me and said:

“You forgot.”

Then, with love so piercing it broke me wide open,
He asked me 4 questions that cut through every lie I’d ever believed.


The 4 Questions That Changed Everything

Spiritually:
“When did you stop listening to Me—to God, to Spirit?”
“Why?”
“How old were you?”

Mentally:
“What belief systems—family, religion, culture—pulled you away from Me?”

Emotionally:
“Why do you keep punishing yourself by believing you’re unworthy of My Love?”

Physically:
“Why do you keep attracting the same broken people who reinforce your unworthiness?”
“Why are you still resisting My Love?”


I Didn’t Have to Think.

My Soul Already Knew.

I stopped listening as a child—when:

  • My intuition was punished

  • Church taught me fear instead of love

  • Culture said my value was in my body, not my being

So I:

  • Silenced my voice

  • Betrayed my instincts

  • Numbed the pain through food, men, drugs, perfectionism

  • Kept choosing the same abusers in different costumes

  • Believed pain was love

Until Christ broke the cycle.


He Didn’t Coddle Me.

He Commissioned Me.

He told me the truth:

  • I wasn’t broken—the systems were.

  • I had the power to heal—but I was still giving it away.

  • Forgiveness isn’t forgetting—it’s freedom.

  • Love isn’t just soft or an emotion—it’s the most powerful force in the universe.

That night, Christ downloaded the blueprint for what would become…


The 4 Body Fit™ Empowerment Method

Clinically proven.
Science-backed.
Designed for women’s biology, psychology, and spiritual intelligence.
It’s now helped over 3 million women worldwide.

Not surface-level fixes.
Embodied healing.
True empowerment.


If You’re Brave Enough to Ask These 4 Questions…

…you can break free too.

But here’s the deal:

  • You will never heal what you’re still defending.

  • You can’t think your way to transformation—you must embody it.

  • You are not broken. The systems are.

  • Pain is not the enemy. Denial is.


Ready to Remember Who You Are?

If you’re done blaming and ready to reclaim…

If you’re willing to stop bypassing and finally meet yourself in the mirror of divine truth…

I’ll meet you there.

This is more than a method.
It’s a movement.
It’s a return.

Let’s walk each other home.

“LOVE ISN’T JUST AN EMOTION;

it’s  the most powerful force in the universe

grounded by action and responsibility.”

Sierra Bender

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